BEST WAYS TO FALL IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF.

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   " Do you want to meet the love of your life? Look in the mirror"
                                     -Byron Katie
Designing a beautiful life begins with a self love, self respect, self confidence and self forgiveness.
The day you fall in love with yourself
then, very soon the day will come that the Whole universe will fall in love with you. Loving yourself is very important.                                  

If you are thinking that when you will become perfect, good-looking, stunning, and gorgeous that day you will start loving yourself then, Let me tell you one thing that Nobody is perfect here.  We just have to accept ourself with all those imperfections
that we have. We all are perfectly imperfect and that's alright.          
  

Remember that You are treating others the way you are treating yourself. so,today onwards cherish the life of yours the way you are not the life of others and the way they are.

The best thing of being a relationship with ourself is there is no one who is going to hurt you. There would be no breakups, no heart breaking.

So,here are some of the best ways
to fall in love with the most amazing, gorgeous and awesome person in this world that is you.



Let start what are the best ways.

1) LOVE YOUR FLAW.

 We all have flaw. As I already told you in the beginning that nobody is perfect in this world. There are two types of flaw we all have.
1) Internal flaws.
2) External flaws.
Internal flaws are those flaws which cannot be changed. For example our eyes, our nose, our body color. These are known as internal flaws. We can't change those flaws but one thing we can do that, is to love all those flaws.
We should be thankful of all those internal flaws because of these flaws people recognised  you who you are.

 External flaws are those flaws which can be changed by ourselves.  For example How we dressed ourselves, how we talk to others, these all things can be changed by ourselves through self- development tips, watching some videos and adopting some self- development habits. In short the flaws which can be changed is known as external flaws.
Whatever flaws you might have been just accept yourself the way you are.
Because your flaws are actually much smaller than you think. So, accept yourself and love your flaws. Don't regret for having those unique flaws that exist in you.

2) STOP COMPARING YOURSELF WITH OTHERS.

Most of the people in this world have a habit of making comparison. They always compare their life with the life of others. When I was kid even I used to compare my self with others I used to tell that How lucky they are they know everything. God had given so much talent to them and how unlucky I am, I don't know anything. But as I grown my perception towards comparison totally changed. When you compare yourself with others, it is you only putting yourself down. 

So,why to compare your self with others? It is the step towards hurting yourself. You might have been knowing that Nobody can hurt you without your consent.
In order to love yourself stop comparing yourself ,because comparison kills you who you are.
Start competing not with others but with yourself. I always compete with myself that is ME Verses ME.
Remember that when you compete with others you become Bitter, and when you compete with yourself you become Better. So, today onwards stop comparing and start loving yourself.❤❤❤

3) LOOK IN THE MIRROR.

The gorgeous, talented, wonderful, beautiful, smartest and outstanding person you will always find in the front of the mirror.  Whenever you are having a self doubt just go in the front of the mirror you will find the person who is having all the solutions of your problems.

 The best way to fall in love yourself is to take a look in the mirror for atleast 15 minutes a day and observe yourself and just tell yourself  how beautiful you are, how blessed you are, remind yourself that God had created you for some purpose, find that purpose. You might have been heard that famous line God  is creative, I mean just look at me.

4) FORGIVE YOURSELF FOR YOUR MISTAKES.

Learn to forgive yourself first for your mistakes. Because when you learn to forgive yourself then it would be easy to forgive others. The best thing about forgiveness is,  when we forgive others our mind is relaxed and there will be no negativity about that person. If you are not forgiving others then, they have a power on your mind.
And  you might been thinking again and again about that person. In order to relaxed and bring positivity, we must forgive others.

Sometime It might be difficult  for you to pardon yourself then at that time the best thing you can do is to first commit yourself that the mistake had been done by you. Because when you commit yourself then it would be easy to forgive yourself. So, in order to love yourself first forgive yourself for all your mistakes that had been done by you. 

5) ENJOY YOUR OWN COMPANY.

Instead of enjoying others company we should love to enjoy our own company. Everyone interested to live the life of others but, nobody interested to love their life. But the exact truth is that if you were given the life of others still you won't like that, because it's a human tendency.
Instead of whinning and complaining accept the things. I love to live alone and enjoy my own company but, I hate to be lonely.

When you enjoy your own company you will be able to know more deeply about yourself. So, instead of spending time by scrolling on the phone it's better to spend some time with yourself and enjoy your own company.

6) TALK TO YOURSELF.

Self talk plays a very important role in our life. Through self talk we are able to analyse ourself how we are. Always have a positive self talk with yourself,
It will create positive impact on your life. During a self talk you would be able to find two things your strength and your weakness. 

When you will find your strength you will be blessed and thankful to the god and when you will find weakness,
don't worry you also have the potential to convert that same weakness into strength. 
Talk to yourself for atleast once in a day, because if you don't talk to yourself you may miss a meeting with a most important person in this world.

7) APPRECIATE  YOURSELF.

Learn to appreciate yourself. Don't wait for the perfect moment, that you will appreciate yourself when the world will appreciate you. If you have done something good today then appreciate yourself, give rewards to yourself what you have done, cherish those moments with yourself.

By adopting the habit of appreciating, it will generate positive vibes. So, learn to appreciate yourself the way you are.  Stop judging yourself with the eyes of others , start appreciating yourself and love yourself the way you are.

These are some of the best ways to fall in love yourself.
Instead of falling in love with others and hurting ourselves. It is better to falling in love with ourselves.

    "Respect yourself, love yourself,  because there has never been a person like you and there never will be again." 
                                      -Osho






Hello, my fabulous readers, thanks a lot for reading my article. I m Archana as your friend here. I hope you get some micro knowledge through this article. If you think this is a useful and unique article then please with your friends. See you in the next article. Till that Takes care and Jai hind. Stay blessed and stay tuned with me...

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